Both issues score a big fat "Who the hell cares?" in my book.
Glad I grew up on the tail end of the Frankie-Goes-to-Hollywood-Non-Monogamous era. I cannot imagine being nervous about anyone in my life short of my mother seeing a condom laying around by my bed. By the way, does anyone else think a "Condom Tree" for the bathroom would be a fun holiday craft project? Has Good Housekeeping featured this concept yet? It would be big fun for all the Ho, Ho, Ho's! ;)