also, i have talked to approximately 11 LJ peeps on the fone, 9 of whom i have met in person. (unlike most ppl, talking on the fone is more intimate for me than just meeting people. a fone chat more or less indicates that i consider you a Good Friend.) of those, approximately 3 are no longer on my f(r)iends list. then there are 2 I have foned with but never met in person, although I consider them both such good friends of mine that I tend to completely forget that fact. anyway I want to meet both of them soon in order to end that confusion :)
there are a bunch more ppl i'd love to meet or fone and i'm sure when the time is right we'll all get around to it or if the time's not right well then it just wasn't meant to happen now was it.