vincent warren and frank o'hara were only in love for two years during which o'hara wrote all kinds of passionate poems and then it was over just like that? I would say, how can ppl be done with each other that fast, except I myself have had instances of getting thrown on the cosmic trash-heap within three months so maybe 2 years is pretty good? go figure. still, if yr not gonna be in my life for 5 or 10 years minimum I dun wanna bother. I mean, that's the lifespan I expect out of a car.